On the morning of National day, when others had already gone home leaving me alone in the dormitory， I lied on my bed leisurely not having to think that if there’s any lessons that have to be taken, suddenly i heard a burst of beautiful light music coming from the next door. I waked up slowly from my sweet dream and opened my bleary eyes, then laid still on the bed and watched the curtain dancing with wind, the sunlight shining through the window on the floor beside my bed. A short while later，I got up and then walked slowly towards the window, feeling the fresh wind, the warm sunlight and the special holiday morning alone.
Just at that very moment, so many memories, happiness together with some sadness, which were likely happened yesterday that impacted my brain with notes. I know it is the time for the inspirations to create something, so I take up my guitar and began to indite my first song of this year.
The song is about the process of graduating in two years in my upbringing period as the material of the song which witnessed my growth, so it is also the reason why I wrote this article.
Feeling Category
My day on campus
Miserable end
A cruel man abandoned his wife and son. Above all, everyone must abide by the law. So he was arrested. But the trial came to an abrupt end because of the man’s absence. It was said he was mentally abnormal and was set free according to one law! What an absurd judgment! That’s absolute nonsense! The angry people thought this bad law ought to be abolished to keep the judge from abusing his power. Fortunately, the boy’s mother was able to afford enough money for the boy to go abroad to study. The moment the son was about to go aboard the ship, they kissed good-bye with tears. The boy went to an Academy of Technology successfully. No one could doubt his ability to learn abstract knowledge. He was absorbed in knowledge so much, just like dry sand absorbed water. His teacher really appreciated his complete absorption in his studies. So he supplied the boy abundant books for study, which accelerated the boy working harder.
After years hard study, the boy achieved greatly in his industry and he became a true young man. He arrived in his homeland one day after he said farewell to his lovely teacher. But he couldn’t find his mother and no clue has been left due to little communication. What has been found out is only his treacherous father. But all things have changed. His father turned to be truly mad a little and could only recognize him sometimes. He tried hard to calm himself at the face of all these great misfortune. He tried every chance to get all the information about the misfortune in his family as soon as his father got a bit sober.
However, all the chances have been grubbed by God. His father was a true lunatic because of the deterioration of the disease. He got some info from his half-mad father, and almost of them is about his mother. Now he had to place great expectations on his mother who had been living somewhere following his father’s words.
Tags: abandon, abuse, achieve, expectation, misfortune
Advice about life
Eat more roughage;
Do more than others expect you to do and do it carefully;
Remember what life tells you;
Don’t take to heart everything you hear;
Don’t spend all that you have;
Don’t sleep as long as you want;
Whenever you say “I love you”, please say it honestly;
Whenever you say “I’m sorry”, please look into the other person’s eyes;
Fall in love at first sight;
Don’t neglect dreams;
Love deeply and ardently, even if there is pain, but this is the way to make your life complete.
Find a way to settle, not to dispute;
Never judge people by their appearance;
Speak slowly, but think quickly;
When someone asks you a question you don’t wanna answer, smile and say, “why do you wanna know?”
Remember that the man who can shoulder the most risk will gain the deepest love and the supreme accomplishment;
Call your mother on the phone. If you cannot, you may think of her in your heart;
When someone sneeaes, say “God bless you”.
If you fail, don’t forget to learn your lesson;
Remember the three “respects”: respect yourself; respect others; stand on dignity and pay attention to your behavior;
Don’t let a little dispute break up a great friendship;
Whenver you find your wrong, be quick with reparation!
Whenever you make a phone call, smile when you pick up the phone, because someone will feel it!
Marry a person who likes talking; because when you get old, you will find that chatting will be a great advantage.
Find time for yourself;
Life will change what our are but not who you are;
Remember that silence is golden;
Read more books and watch less television;
Live a noble and honest life. Remembering past times in hyour old age will help you to enjoy your life again;
Trust God, but don’t forget to lock the door;
The harmonizing atmosphere of a family is valuable;
Whn you qu;arrel with a close friend, talk about the main dish, don’t quibble over the appetizers;
You cannot hold onto yesterday;
Figure out the meaning of someone’s words;
Share your knowledge to continue a timeless tradition;
Treat our earth in a friendly way, don’t fool around with mother nature;
Do the thing you should do.
Go to a place you have never been to every year;
If you earn much money, the best way to spend it is on charitable deeds while you are alive;
Remember, not all the best harvest is luck;
Comment on the success you have attained by looking in the past at the target you wanted to achieve most.
Reasons of laughing at yourself
Did you have the experience of being laughed at due to your careless mistakes? Especially when you learn that the joke was designed delibrately by your friends, you may be furious and awkward that you even wish the ground would open up beneath you. But do you believe that these friends are not faithful any more?
Of course not. You cannot make sure! But how do you deal with that situation? Of course, not each situation is the same – if you are with a close group of friends who laugh because they have found your embarrassing faux pas genuinely funny, then lighten up and try to see that they aren’t laughing in order to make you feel bad.
They just want to make you forget the unhappiness quickly by the way of laughing. Laughter is a driving dynamic behind almost all friendships, and when your face is red just try to remember that it will soon be someone else’s turn – and that you’ll be laughing when that happens! If you can embrace your mortification and laugh with the others, it’ll be forgotten quicker. If it isn’t, at least in future people will laugh with you, rather than at you.
But we cannot definite all friends as one. There is always one or more friends unfriendly. If you feel that the laughter isn’t good hearted – that it’s malicious, that the people laughing are revealing in your awkward feeling, then what do you do? The most important thing to remember is not to get angry – because if people see it bothers you, then their natural reaction is to find the whole situation funnier, and the memory of it will last longer. In this case, laugh, but try to smoothly change the subject. If it carries on, try to make yourself scarce until people have forgotten.
Even so, you still adhere to seperation from him or her. This is the normal negative reaction of being insulted. So, those genuinely unpleasant situations aside, it is important to be able to laugh at yourself. It shows you don’t take yourself too seriously, that you aren’t afraid to make mistakes. Everyone messes up now and then – if you can take it in your stride and see the funny side, you’ll be a much happier person, especially if you can learn from it! This is the positive attitude when you encounter shame.
Many successful , funny comedians manage to take awkward moments from their lives and retell them in their acts. By laughing at themselves and inviting their audience to laugh with them they are taking control of the embarrassing situation, turning it round, and making it work for them – if you can emulate this, you’ll be telling the joke instead of being the joke. We all make mistakes; we’ve all fallen on the proverbial banana skin and had a metaphorical pie to the face – the worst thing you can do is deny it. Just take it in your stride, admit it was funny, and move on.
Yesterday Once More
In Paul’s youth, he had the ambition of being a famous basketball player. As an amateur, he found great amusement in playing basketball. An ambitious boy usually worked hard until one day he broke his leg. The ambulance drove along with noisy whirling whistles toward the hospital. His parents alternated in looking after him. Once he recovered, Paul amended his life goal. He began to have interest in political affairs. At the age of 40, he was appointed ambassador to Britain. He told the news to his girlfriend at once and he proposed to her. He said to her, “My dear, my savings amount to 300 thousand dollars. We have ample money to decorate our wedding room. I just bought an amplifier yesterday. And I prefer to an ampere meter being made of aluminum even though it has analog to another one. ” But he was amazed to hear her ambiguous answer, “Maybe….”. Paul had no alternative but to wait. There were a few alterations to the timetable and the next month he flew to Britain. The airplane flew at an altitude of 20000 ft. Paul felt something wrong and soon lost his mind. When he woke up, he was told that the airplane had crashed and he broke his leg, once again! By analogy, we could guess that Paul would amend his life goal once again!
Tags: basketball, break leg, politic
And I have wings
“ and I have wings, and I can fly,” the Angel said.
“yes,” the Lord God replied, his lips drawn slightly, mischievously into a grin.
“So what then of man?”
The Lord God raised an eyebrow, unfolding his hands over Creation.
“A little below angels?”
“For a time,” the Lord God answered.
The Angel gazed across the expanse he perceived as his domain, considering not Creation, for still he felt no threat from below. “And what shall he so when that time arrives? For I have wings, and I can fly. And he has none.”
The Lord God nodded, saying “even tose without wings may one day fly.”
The Angel lifted a stone aloft and let it slip from his grasp. Slowly it spun toward his feet. And thus he scowled. Such an image he had planned, and at the moment of fruition only a single nugget lay nearby, and yet he had wondered not. For stone, he knew, a stone of any size or shape or substance should have served his purpose none better than any other. But rather than plummeting into oblivion, gradually this bit of earthen work descended. Having neither a dearth of choice or course or option, he made due, though his desire was otherwise.
“But he will fall,” the Angel continued.
“Yes.”
“Ah.” Upon angelic lips bent a half-smile victory. “Such things are inevitable, and wholly without grace.”
The Lord God inhaled. A tear formed ever so lightly, bubbling like a brook broken free, it began its meandering course downward. “Inevitable, yes,” he responded. But keeping the remainder of breath within the depths of his chest, the Lord God touched the dampness upon his cheek, lifted it upon a fingertip and kissed it into the sky. It drifted downward like so many falling stars. And all those who stood upongreen earth and gazed upward saw the broken trail as it spread and scattered and rained upon them. And they too dropped upon their knees, heads folded into up-spread palms.
Of stones the Angel spoke naught, never yet daring to break the silence which spreadthrough Creation.
And so the ache grew within the Lord God like the silent outcry of millions. And the Lord God let the lids of his eyes fall, and the remainder of breath, he expelled upon Creation. This too rained downward, though invisible in its passing, and poured upon all who no longer gazed upward.
The sweet breath filled them, and the Spirit quickened and rekindledin their hearts. As one to another, palms slid across brow, and freed, lifted still upturned, toward heaven. As one to another, they rose and stood again upon green earth. And as one, they expelled the breath that filed them, and it too rose as a thundrous cry.
The Angel trembled and covered his ears, lest he had been torn asunder from the Spirit of such pain, of such joy.
As the silence returned, the Lord God looked upon the Angel and his lips drew together and he said, “Yes. Even those without wings may one day fly.”
A blessing in disguise.
A cruel man abandoned his wife and son. Above all, everyone must abide by the law. So he was arrested. But the trial came to an abrupt end because of the man’s absence. It was said he was mentally abnormal and was set free according to one law! What an absurd judgment! That’s absolute nonsense! The angry people thought this bad law ought to be abolished to keep the judge from abusing his power. Fortunately, the boy’s mother was able to afford enough money for the boy to go abroad to study. The moment the son was about to go aboard the ship, they kissed good-bye with tears. The boy went to an Academy of Technology successfully. No one could doubt his ability to learn abstract knowledge. He was absorbed in knowledge so much, just like dry sand absorbed water. His teacher really appreciated his complete absorption in his studies. So he supplied the boy abundant books for study, which accelerated the boy working harder.
Michael Jackson Set An Example To Us
He has passed away. We could make an objective comment about Michael Jackson. When Michael Jackson was very young, 11 years old, he and 4 of his siblings began a band with their father Joseph Jackson as the manager. The band was called “the Jackson 5″ and the group attained much commercial success. It was not until 1971 that Michael Jackson left the Jackson 5 and began his solo career.
His career really began to take off in the early 1980’s. and he was one of the first and most popular black artists to gain a prominent following on MTV. This was due in large part to the huge budget and extravagant budgets of his music videos for his songs. Songs with record holding videos include: Beat it - Billie Jean - and Thriller. This led further to Michael Jackson’s popularization of amazing and complicated dance choreographing and musical numbers. His record breaking live shows earned him enormous amounts of money.
We cannot stay at his success and fame only, but should at his hard try and determination further. Much benefitial to us in action should be learned from his thriller experience
The first and most important virtue is his compassion and kindness. Due to his many court cases, his fans were taken on a world wind type of tour that had little to do with flashing lights, at least not the kind that Michael shined under. With each court case and trouble, his true fans believed in his word of innocence, and they stood by him time and time again, though at times, with questions, but steadfast.
His record breaking live shows earned him enormous amounts of money. Another thing that many do not know about Jackson is that he raised and donated MILLIONS of dollars to over 39 charities for a multitude of causes through his namesake foundation. This is often overlooked due to his appearance and increasingly bizarre and changing appearance.
Keep your own personality. Michael was a true celebration of what it meant to be an individual. He was getting plastic surgery when nobody else really knew about it. Whatever reason caused him to change his appearance, was his own reason, a private, personal matter that only Michael would understand. He dressed differently, spoke differently, and was a sort of a pseudo-spokesperson for anyone who ever felt unloved, or out of place.
Some of the dances moves popularized at these live shows include the robot and the moonwalk. Michael Jackson’s musical influence stretched across many musical genre’s including hip-hop, pop and R&B in part because of his eccentric and distinct style of vocals and music.
His modest background as a child in Indiana to a superstar known in every corner of the world is a fairytale story. It shows his fans that dreams are possible, anything is achievable, and there are no excuses.
Tags: compassion, individual, Michael Jackson
Think Critically in Coping Information
Critical thinking is a process that takes place in the mind of an individual, and a process of analyzing and evaluating informations, which may be in the form of propositions or statements provided to you as true. But never easy to believe it’s true, think about it twice, study in depth the reasons and evidence before making their own judgments about the information.
The most objective information we receive is the first-hand information. Every day, there’s a lot of information that a person can learn. For man and prehistoric animals, this information was considered at first hand. Includes things to see, touch, hear, smell and taste.
Second-hand information is another type of information found by the majority of the current generation. This information is stored in his brain, and later called as souvenirs. When combined with the cognitive, then it becomes a world view. The world can affect any decision you make.The information you’ve learned is second. Coming from parents, friends, teachers, books, television, or conversation.
You get a shelled hard time identifying the original source of the vast majority of the information. You will be challenged by even a single piece of data in his head. Thus, argue vehemently to justify their side. But then, it will be difficult because they have no idea of its original source. Then doubts about whether the information was correct or not, since there is no evidence to corroborate it. However, it is the usual way that is going to defend any challenge in the information they’ve learned. It is despite its lack of justification. Compared to the information received by their prehistoric ancestors, the information being given today is very different. Given the mass media has the power to create a virtual lack of harmony between the mind of many people.
The approach the mass media take seems to be poor. Since all the collage of information in your mind sometimes has no basis at all. Thus, he created the viewpoint could also have a weaker base. No matter how important a point of view of a person, ie, which builds most of the important decisions of life or even a single decision is considered to be developed.These explanations focus on how critical thinking going on.
Critical thinkers gather information from experience, observation, communication, or reasoning. Then, through the incorporation of critical thinking on the information gained, the person can draw intellectual values in the field. Each division studied the accuracy, clarity, accuracy, completeness, impartiality, and the evidence. It is very important because it reduces the risk of believing false ideas that can lead to fatal errors. Critical thinking does not respond to various situations and topics for the connections between them can be found.
Tags: critically, first hand, information
The attitude in your life
It isn’t stunning often to come across some difficulties in life. Surrender or conquer, it’s your choice. But before you should know that good affirmation: “There are no problem in my life only adventures, challenges and opportunities to show your stuff.” You’ve heard the statement and Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich, that we are masters of our fate.
Actually, an positive attitude may save one from being lost in hardship. It’s because we have a human mind. You see, events, conditions, and circumstances just are. The meanings you assign to them are within your complete control. Follow this, we can get courageous while being stuck, to turn the situation around.
That is not saying you won’t have “challenges and trying times”, but there are no problems in your life. Because you’ve re-classified them. Things will come up, go to the bank on that one, things will.
But to you opportunities coexists in adventures. You see, you feeling good - remember Think and Grow Rich - you feeling good, you feeling empowered, you in control… It is a world of cause and effect. The vibes that you emit trigger and pull from all the HoloCosm what the Law of Attraction is going to bring you.
And you are positive that you are achieving things, that you are contributing, that good things are coming to you. That you can overcome any obstacle, any challenge. You love these kind of things, this is the stuff that life is made of! This is the stuff that gives you passion in your quest!
“How do you design an interpretation system that motivates people?” Now look at this: design an interpretation system. We’re talking about you have the ability to think, by the way. “As a series of opportunities rather than as a series of threats.”
Look at the assumptions behind this scientific human change wisdom… There is no way to change the world to keep it from bringing adventures, challenges, and new opportunities in your life, so you learn to reframe them into excitement rather than frustration and overwhelm.
There won’t be rainbows befor winds and storms! Don’t push difficulties out! That which has bitter to endure may be sweet to remember.
Embrace all those difficulties that make you bored! Embrace opportunities!